Cast Party & Growing Up

Hey, internet! Its been a while... Yeah...
Well, since I last spoke to you, I was sick AGAIN, for the third time which sucked. I don't think it was really 'again'. I think it was more of 'still'. I went to the party I mentioned in my last post (and, yes, I am looking at my last post in another window while writing this xD ) and had tons and tons of fun. We TP'ed a kid's house. Which was... Fun? I don't know, it made me feel like a stereotypical delinquent teenager, even though I didn't do any of the actual TP'ing. I just kinda watched and followed behind the car of my friend's boyfriend. But it was still tons of AWESOMENESS. We played Rock Band, which I hardly ever play, but I love it. And Apples to Apples. And as my friend was talking about the song "Jizz in my pants" by Lonely Island (excuse me if this isn't in fact the name), I was biting into a cream puff, the cream from said puff falling right onto my pants. It was pretty darn great timing.

Anyway, for the last week I've been going to rehearsals for the school play, which was Midsummer Nights Dream and Taming of The Shrew in one show, because my sister was working in the light booth for it. Tonight was the closing night, and it was so much fun. I went to the cast party afterwards (after all, I went to more rehearsals than two of the kids actually doing the lights), and had loads of fun. I love hanging out with the drama kids, because they're all really energetic and fun, for the most part. And since the spring musical is Grease, they played the Grease soundtrack and EVERYONE was singing along. And also dancing along. And also throwing cupcakes in people's faces. And spraying Febreeze IN MY HAIR. But as I said, it was lots of fun, and it is something I definitely don't regret doing.

Now, because I wish for this post to have an actual topic, I want to talk about young girls who want to grow up too quickly. This was recently brought to my attention when I found out that a very good friend of mine was dating someone that is more than a decade older than her, has been married and divorced, and has a four-year-old child. Now, I'm not judging this friend at all, because he seems like an alright guy, and she can date whoever she wants as long as she's happy. Ya' know? Its not exactly her and her relationship that made me realize this whole "growing up too fast" thing, it merely brought it to my attention. Why do teenage girls have this idea in their head that everything has to be done NOW? I mean, I talk to so many girls that say "Oh, yeah, I slept with a guy I don't know, just to get my first time over with." Why? I just don't understand. Sex is not something you do to "get it over with". HELL, kissing isn't something you do "just to get it over with". Why is it that we have to do everything NOW? Why can't all those girls realize that you have your ENTIRE life to do anything you want to do? Nothing needs to be done just to "get it over with". Do it because you want to. Do it because you're ready. Not because you're pressured, and not because someone tells you its cool to be "that person". I'm going to tell you something, internet. I feel almost opposite of how all these girls feel. I'm terrified of growing up. Money, guys, sex, relationships, college, work... I'm not ready for that. And I have a feeling that a lot of those girls that "did it to get it over with" feel the same way. They weren't ready. But they can't take anything back. They did what they did, even if their mind was freaking the hell out.

I'm so sorry about the length of this post! Ohmygoodness, I didn't even know I felt so strongly about the topic. But I guess I really do. I just think that people fool themselves into thinking they're ready to grow up, when they aren't. And it kills me to watch this happen when it is so easily prevented.

Also, I broke my glasses and now my nose is scratched and bleeding. AWESOME, eh?

So anyway. Thanks for reading, have a nice week, I hope you take this to heart, and I actually kind of enjoyed writing about a real topic.

Night, ya'll!
(its 1:00 AM, my sister wants to go to bed, and, sadly this is the latest I've stayed up in a while. ITSALLYOURFAULT, INTERNET.)